Is Your Love Life All You Want it to be

Is Your Love Life All You Want it to be? Contact me now if you want to find out more about this topic There are many aspects to what we commonly call “Love”. There is the love we have for friends and family. There is also the love many of us feel for the world, its inhabitants and the universe. But the love for an intimate relationship is probably the type most fraught with challenges and insecurities. We tend to think of the loving feelings we have for anyone else who is not an intimate partner as everlasting and probably in most cases unconditional. The love you have for your friends and family may not be high intensity but it will probably last a lifetime. It is the kind of bond that would take a very serious problem to break. Love with an intimate partner is, on the other hand[…]

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Are People in Relationships Happier

Are People in Relationships Happier? Contact me now if you want to find out more about this topic Is your Love Life All You Want it to be? It has been said that where there is love there is life. Does that mean a person without love in his/her life is without life? If the statement “where there is love there is life” is true, does it only apply to intimate love with a partner or is it enough simply to have friends and family who love you? It seems to me from the work I have done with both individuals and couples that people who are in close loving relationships with other people seem, in general, to be a bit more positive about life than those with few close friends. But the people who seem to have a real grip on their life do in fact appear to be[…]

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Act your age – you’re too old to have fun

Act your age – you’re too old to have fun Contact me now if you want to find out more about this topic Most of us have been embraced by our parents actions at sometime (or example seeing them on the dance floor at a wedding). There is a dawning process when you realised that your parents are human beings and not just there to feed, clothe and give you things that you needed. Sometimes we need to remind ourselves that we are human and not just there for other people. We want to have fun but often forget how. Society tells us that at different stage in our lives we should conform and act our age. A five year old can act irresponsibly ‘she’s only a child’. At sixteen, ‘well he’s just a teenager he’ll grow out of it. A twenty five year old, ‘look to the future, start[…]

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Unattached and Over 50 Give up on Love

Unattached and Over 50 Give up on Love Contact me now if you want to find out more about this topic Julie, by her own admission, has a life that many of her friends would love to have. She is financially independent, has two grown up successful children, has more friends than can be counted on two hands and could be out socialising every night of the week. Yet there is one part of Julie’s life that she admits to have given up on … Love. Like many women of a certain age and above, Julie finds herself single again after being in what she would describe as an ‘average successful relationship’ for many years. Like many relationships hers just dwindled into something that for her and her partner didn’t warrant staying together; so they didn’t. Since the break up Julie has really found her feet in the single social[…]

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